Thursday, November 28, 2013

Thankful Heart and Apple Pie


It’s Thanksgiving and although I wish I wasn’t sitting at my desk at work but sitting with my family around a table full of food that has never sounded so delicious (especially some apple pie), I’ve been reminded several times today how much support I have back home.  Whether it was the simple tweet, card in the mail, or email I responded to today, I was reminded of how blessed I am to have such wonderful people in my life.  I’m writing this post three months until the day that I leave Korea.  For a little while there, I wasn’t sure I was going to make it, but I’m already nine months in.  I said several times when I left that I wouldn’t be able to do this without all of the support I have at home and that is so true.  The excitement and encouragement from so many people was the extra push I needed to keep going and to know that the day I about cried because I couldn’t find butter or the weeks it took to understand how to recycle all of my trash (which really is quite a process) were going to be worth it.  And the simple hellos I get from people at home just checking in are my favorite. 

My sister likes to remind me how big of a deal it was that I just got up and left her.  I mean, that is slightly true.  I ditched her for a whole year (and missed the trip to Atlanta for her 21st birthday), but even though I got up and moved around the world (and missed weddings of friends so important to me), I have more support than I could have ever asked for.  Even from the people who didn’t like Plan A (move to Korea, obviously) and really wanted me to come up with a plan B. 

But I needed to come here.  I will be thankful for this experience for the rest of my life.  There’s so much to learn when you’re taken out of the surroundings you call home.  I have learned an incredible amount about myself and so much more—what I never really appreciated at home but now look at in a much different light, what I miss about teaching at home or have learned to appreciate because it is so different here, and the importance of enjoying time with the people around you (and pets in my case) when you are with them.  Not only has Korea taught me quite a lot, but this experience has also given me friendships that I know I will always have.  Even though I’m three quarters of the way through the year, sometimes I can’t believe I actually made this happen.  I couldn’t be more thankful for this year or for the quick hellos and how are you doings from home because they really have made a difference.  Not to mention the great friends I've made in Korea (especially having one of them as a neighbor) who have also played a big part in that.

As for Thanksgiving, the workday is almost over and I don’t have any special plans for dinner, but I’ll be eating some turkey and apple pie (and obviously so much more) on Sunday with the church family I’m so thankful to have here.  Happy Thanksgiving!

Monday, October 28, 2013

Snapshots

A peek at what I've been up to the last couple months:
 Baseball!
Typical shenanigans.
Sunday afternoon hangouts. 
Birthday celebrations.
Noraebang.
Softball tournament in Daegu.
Champions!
My favorite plane ride- so pretty with the sunset and lights from the ships below.
Flew to Jeju Island with Katrina for the long weekend!
Lantern Festival in Jinju.  Made our own lanterns and sent our wishes off in the water.
Running through the park on a rainy day.
Jen's birthday!
Of course Jen's birthday celebration continued the next day with an ajumma picnic in the park while also joining in on some Korean games!  Hilarious.
Quick trip to Seoul.
Seoul Tower.
Pop Song Contest
Busan Fireworks Festival
Middle school bucket lists.

I can't believe November is almost here.  Time is flying by and I can definitely say I've been enjoying my time.  It's quite bittersweet realizing how close February actually is.  It took me quite a while to fully adjust to living here, but now that I have, I'm trying my best to embrace it.  And I think I'm doing a pretty good job.

Monday, September 23, 2013

I Love Japan

I can't believe I almost missed out on my trip to Japan.

Before coming to Korea, there were a couple places I knew I wanted to travel to while I was here. Japan was never on the list.  I don't know why.  I had nothing against Japan.  There just wasn't anything I had in mind that I wanted to do there.  When my friend Jen asked (or more like told me) if I wanted to go to Japan, I kept shooting down the idea.  One was because I didn't want to spend more money on another trip quite yet and the other was because Japan never made that list.  It wasn't until after my trip to Bali that I decided to book those tickets to Tokyo!  I wanted to travel again.  I didn't want to go home and think about that one time when I could have gone to Japan but didn't.

We had three days off this week for Chuseok, a holiday in Korea similar to Thanksgiving, which gave us a five day weekend and plenty of time to travel to another country.  My travel buddy and I were off to Tokyo for four days.

After what seemed like a never ending subway ride from the airport to Asakusa, we finally made it to our hostel (my first hostel experience, by the way) around midnight.  The most important thing to note is that we spotted a Denny's on our walk to the hostel and had no problem deciding we would go there for breakfast the next day!  Man, I have missed real breakfast food.  It was delicious.  And we may have gone there again two days later.
After Denny's on Wednesday, we walked around Asakusa for a bit and spotted a market and the Tokyo Skytree.  I didn't buy anything at the market but wish I did because I didn't have another chance to buy souvenirs except for a tiny shop in the airport that didn't have exactly what I was looking for.  Nothing I can do about it now, though.
Market
Skytree in the background and me hating taking pictures by myself!

We had some more time to kill so we found some parks to walk around and Starbucks to get the caramel frappe I love before heading over to the sumo wrestling tournament.  There's a two week long tournament that takes place in September, so of course we had to go!
Sumo!
Delicious dinner!  Soy sauce pork & vegetable ramen.

Thursday we took a break from the typical sightseeing/exploring and after grabbing some Mister Donut for breakfast, we headed over to Tokyo Disneyland. Because why not go to Disney?!  So fun.
Splash Mountain
Driving on the right side of the car and apparently not paying attention.

Once we left Disney, we headed off to the second placed we stayed:  a capsule hotel.  We figured we had to at least try it since we were in Japan.  We ended up really liking it except for the bathroom.  We had our own little space to sleep, but as far as the bathroom went, it was like jjimjilbang style (a public bath house in Korea that I never plan on going to), so I definitely chose the wash my hair in the sink option in another room full of sinks.
The next morning, we were up and ready at a decent time so Jen asked if I wanted to go to Denny's again.  "Is that even a question?" of course was my response!  After some more pancakes, we were off to Hakone, a town with views of Mt. Fuji!  It was about a 90 minute ride on the express train and then another 40 minute train ride to a cable car which finally took us to the ropeway, but it was awesome.  We could see Mt. Fuji from the ropeway and then also on the lake cruise.  It wasn't as visible as it is other days I would assume, but I'm still glad we went.  My favorite was the ride back on the ropeway because the sun started setting.  It was gorgeous.
Mt. Fuji in the background.
Mt. Fuji on the right.

Finally, we were off to Shibuya on Saturday, another part of Tokyo.  There were two things we wanted to see there:  the statue of Hachi and the famous crossing.  If you've seen the movie Hachi then you'll know the dog that I'm talking about.  A good but sad movie (based on a true story) and the dog is amazing.  There is a statue of him in Tokyo in honor of his story.  I had to get a picture with him!
Hachiko
The traffic lights at the famous intersection next to Shibuya Station all turn red at the same time, so people are crossing from every possible direction, yet still no one bumped into me (I'll get to that later).  Of course one thing I spotted was the giant Forever 21 sign, so after crossing we headed into the six story Forever 21.  We have one in Seoul, but I have yet to go to Seoul.  This could have been dangerous, but I only bought three things (a new purse, tank top, and leggings).  I could have been in there all day, but I had a plane to catch!  Whenever I make it to Seoul, going shopping is definitely on my list of things to do.
Shibuya Crossing

The saddest part of our trip was heading back to the airport.  Luckily I got a window seat on the plane, though.  It was so pretty with all of the clouds below us and to add to that, a little bit into the 1 hour and 40 minute flight, Mt. Fuji was poking through the clouds!
Looked even prettier from the plane!

One reason I love Japan is because the people are incredibly kind and friendly.  This is probably what I will remember the most from this trip.  We have several stories where people came up to us and asked if we needed anything or even to give a gift.  Here's a little glimpse:

1.  After the sumo tournament, a lady came up to Jen in the bathroom, handed her a box and said, "Please use."  Hesitating for a second because we weren't sure what was happening, Jen took the box and thanked her.  Once we went outside, she opened it up and there were two of these cups in there.  The box had sumo print all over it, so we assume she bought them there.  Maybe this very kind lady wanted us to remember our trip to Japan?  I'm not sure, but it was so thoughtful.  And because Jen is so nice, she gave me one of them.
2.  After eating dinner, we were walking down the street but decided to go somewhere else, so we turned around quickly and started heading the other way knowing where we were going.  A guy stopped us to ask if we needed help finding anything because he saw us turn around.

3.  We were walking around one of the areas we stayed in one night and stopped to take a picture of something.  We were there for a few minutes and a guy got out of his van and came over to ask if we wanted him to take our picture.  Turns out that wasn't what we were doing, but it was so nice of him to check on that for us because no one else was around.  He didn't have to get out and do that.

For the stories we have when we were the ones who approached someone, they were always so happy to help and smiling along the way.  There were quite a few other things I noticed from the trip and I think a lot of this stems from their kindness.  The stories also show some (maybe a little unfortunate where Korea is concerned) differences I've noticed between Japan and Korea.

1.  No one stared at us.  Not walking down the street.  Not on the subway.  At least we didn't notice it.  I had just commented a few days before going to Japan that I would like to have one day in Korea where I'm not stared at on the subway.  It was so nice to be "left alone."

2.  No one bumps or runs into you (like I mentioned at the Shibuya Crossing).  This amazed me because I've gotten used to being pushed out of the way or hit and no one acknowledging that they feel bad for doing so.  In Japan, they waited patiently for people to get off of the subway before they walked onto the train.

3. Everyone was very orderly when walking up or down the stairs and standing on the escalators.  Check out this straight line on the left so that people can actually walk up on the right if they are in a hurry!  Well done, Japan.
4.  Things close early at night or early compared to Korea.  People aren't out late and probably at home with their families or sleeping (making is less likely to be worn out I'd assume).

5.  I was impressed by everyone's English.  Anyone we talked to was able to understand us and help us out right away (except for one guy but that's only one guy!).

6.  They show their individuality--hairstyles, clothes, tattoos, piercings.  I loved seeing that.

I think it's apparent that I can go on and on about this trip.  And to think that I almost didn't go...I really would have missed out!  I owe a big thank you to Jen for bugging me until I booked my tickets.  Not only is she a great friend that I made in Korea, but she's been a great travel buddy too.  She was so right about Japan.  I may not have wanted to spend more money so soon, but there is so much to gain from traveling and experiencing new cultures.  Despite the differences I just mentioned between Japan and Korea that I have experienced, I am so glad to be living in Korea this year and to have the opportunity to see other countries along the way as well.  Whether the cultures are difficult to ease into or refreshing, there is always something to learn and take away from them.  I couldn't be more grateful.

Monday, September 16, 2013

Take Me Back To Bali


I suppose I should write about my trip to Bali before I board another plane tomorrow heading to Tokyo! 

At this time last year, I was just beginning the EPIK application process and really didn’t have a clue what I was doing.  I was just going through the motions, not even sure how much I actually stopped to think about what I was applying for (a.k.a. how much courage it takes to go through with this and leave the comfort of home).  I never would have guessed that one year later, I would have been given all of these amazing opportunities; I am so thankful.

I went to Bali for a week in August with my friend Jen.  She’s so smart and booked her trip to be quite a bit longer than I booked mine.  I wish I could go back and do the same!  I liked the idea of having some time between vacation and going back to work instead of getting back the night before, but once I was in Bali, I did not want to leave.

I’ll let my pictures do most of the talking.

Around Kuta:

Tanaya in Kuta (My favorite place we stayed.)
Kuta Beach
Yummy dinner.
Neighbors in Korea!

Tour Day with Wayan:
Entrance to a traditional house.
Rice Terraces
Walking through the rice terraces.
Coffee Planation.  Samples of coffee and tea, along with a cup of luwak coffee.
Mt. Batur.  Active volcano where I was going to do a sunrise hike, but getting picked up at 2 a.m. didn't sound so great anymore.  Wish I would have done it anyway!

Tour Day with Ketut:
Monkey Forest
My favorite!
Tanah Lot - Temple in the water.
Ulun Danu Temple

Ketut, our driver/tour guide for the day!  They had a deer at this place and when the three of us were by the fence, Ketut asked us what we call a deer with one eye.  It sounded like he genuinely wanted to know the English word, so Jen and I looked at each other kind of confused not realizing he was telling us a joke.  A few seconds later, Ketut said no eyed deer and he started cracking up.  It was the funniest thing.
Nick's Homestay in Ubud.

Around Ubud:
Nirwa Homestay in Ubud.
Walking around.
Stray dogs everywhere.  He was my favorite.
It is so pretty anywhere you eat.
Women Kecak & Fire Dance

Last day:
Seminyak Beach
A few more hours on the beach before boarding the plane!

When I think about my trip to Bali, I remember how relaxing and beautiful it was.  It was so easy to just sit and not worry about the time, and I took note of the little things happening around me.  Here's a list of what I noticed:

1. There are motorbikes everywhere and I saw everything from entire families (both parents and two kids) riding on one to young kids driving to foreigners driving.
2. Many women carry things around on their heads.  It was very impressive, especially the woman carrying the giant water jug.
3. Beeping the horn when driving didn't seem to be out of anger but more of a warning that they're coming around the corner, etc.  There's a lot of beeping.
4. Their English is very good.
5. The food is colorful and delicious.
6. Everything is open concept, very pretty (like the picture of the restaurant above).
7. There are stray dogs everywhere.  I noticed this right away during my taxi ride from the airport to the hotel.  They are smart though and don't get in the way of the cars/motorbikes. They seem friendly.
8. A tradition:  Independence Day in Indonesia is August 17, so Wayan and Ketut both told us a little bit about what their village does to celebrate.  Someone puts a treasure or prize at the top of a palm tree, they put oil on the tree, and everyone tries to climb it to win the treasure.
9. No one seemed to be worried about time.  I love that.
10. Things seemed simple, not stressful.
11. The people there were always smiling and very kind.

I'm so thankful for the chance I had to go to Bali, to experience everything that we did there, and to meet such great people.  I want to go back and maybe one day I will!